100 Days and counting...

Rich and I were fortunate to be able to come home to Texas and spend Christmas with my family this year! While it was a rough Christmas for all and our hearts were saddened by the fact that Nana was not there to celebrate her favorite holiday with us, there was and is much to be thankful for, most of all our family! We are slowly healing from loss of a wonderful Mother, Grandmother and friend but I know she was there watching over us the entire day!

One of the last conversations I had with Nana was all about our wedding and what my dress looked like and what she would wear to the wedding. While it brings tears and sorrow knowing that she will not be there in body while Rich and I say "I do", I know that she will be smiling down from above, glowing with pride as she always did when thinking or talking about her family, daughters, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

Though it is bitter sweet, I was able to go and pick up my dress from the dress shop while I was home at Christmas. Mom and SheRa went with me and she was able to pick up hers as well. Not only did SheRa help lighten the mood with her usual laughter, she modeled her dress as well as channeled Natalie and Sasha to the shop as well. (Courtney's dress is not in yet, I wont start to worry for another week or so!)

I was able to try on MY dress, not just the stores sample gown but my very own wedding dress. It is still so surreal that I am getting married, I was the one standing in front of the mirror in a wedding gown...EXCITING but surreal at the same time. I love it just as much today as I did the day I first tried it on and ultimately decided it was THE dress. I can not wait to get it altered, and in just 100 days wear it down the isle and become Lt Col and Mrs Richard Rupanovic.

I can not believe that its only 100 days. Where has the time gone? I feel like there is so much left to do, little stuff but none the less A LOT of little stuff. I started making a list of "to-do's" today and it is overwhelming to look at. I have split them up over the next couple of weeks but it it still a lot to take in and figure out how I will ever get it all done!?

"normal" shoes here I come!!

I went to the doctor today and got the pin in my toe removed. After waiting about 90 minutes I was then taken into have my foot x-rayed. I saw a glimpse of my x-ray on the computer monitor I asked if I could look at them. The nice x-ray tech asked if I would like a copy. DUH it is the craziest thing I think I have ever seen, at least where x-rays of my feet are concerned. I have 4 screws, a plate and a 4 inch pin in my foot. WILD!!!

After taking the x-rays I was then placed back in the exam room to wait some more. My 1:30 appointment really meant I wouldn't see the Dr until 4:00, go figure. After the doctor came in and took a look at the x-rays, to which he said "That's what I like to see", he told me the game plan. 8 weeks of physical therapy, orthodox and hard sole shoes should set me on my way to dancing the night away come 4/17/10.


After the doctor left I had some guy come talk to me and write a prescription for orthodox. Next came the worst part of the whole appointment, sadly this was the part that I was looking most forward to but that hurt the worst. The doctors assistant came in at this point and told me she was going to "try" not to hurt me, i knew right away this was bad news. After using "elbow grease" she finally was able to get the pin out. I instantly felt light headed, from the pain, and thought I was going to pass out. This was not a fun experience but it is out and I can start on the road to recovery!































Physical therapy is not going to be easy, I have to learn how to walk all over again. I have not been in normal shoes or walking regularly since August so it is going to take some time for me to learn to walk on my whole foot and not just the outside of it. This should be an interesting process, I know it wont be easy but as the doctor said my "carrot dangling in front" of me is our first dance as man and wife (not to mention the dances that will follow that)!!


One thing is for sure, I CAN NOT WAIT for my next pedicure!!!

Whew...at least its over!

So the last couple of weeks have been interesting to say the least. I had my foot surgery on November 19th and since then have been hobbling around on crutches and a knee walker thing.

I got my stitches out this past Wednesday, December 2, and was placed into a negative heel shoe. This shoe is designed to take the weight off my foot where the broken bone was removed, a plate and a pin inserted. as much as I was wanting to walk out of the doctors office, this didn't happen. I am still hobbling around on crutches and the knee walker. When the stitches first came out and i attempted to place weight on my foot I could feel the incision pulling, I was too afraid that I was going to open it up if I put pressure on it (not to mention, it HURT to put pressure on my foot!). Just last night I started to put a little more pressure and start "walking" on my foot with the help of crutches. Its really more of a shuffle that I am doing in 1-2 inch increments...I am hoping that I can get rid of the crutches soon, feel more confident walking and get the show on the road. The most important thing is that I be able to walk and dance come April.

I will have to most likely change my shoes that I will be wearing for the wedding. I don't think that the 2 inch heels that I ordered to wear will be the best thing with my foot, especially since the doctor isn't too fond of the idea. I did find some ivory satin isetoner slippers that I am considering as my back up option. Wish I had known about surgery BEFORE I ordered the heels that I can not return, exchange or even wear. OH WELL...

Engagement Photos

Last Sunday Rich and I were blessed to have the opportunity to take our engagement photos. My dear friend Missie allowed us to borrow her father for the afternoon to take our photos in Maryland. We went to Oregon Ridge Park and took advantage of the beautiful nature and wonderful fall colors of the trees as our backdrop.

We couldn't have asked for a better day, or company, for out pictures. It was so much fun and I cant say enough good things about how the pictures turned out. I am so excited to have so many to chose from, not sure I can pick ONE favorite! Thank you so much Dad Mills for spending your afternoon with us and taking such wonderful pictures. Thank you Mom Mills for feeding us such a wonderful meal afterwards, it is always good to spend time with your family!

Here are just a few of the pictures that were taken:

Just under SIX months to go...

We have hit the half way point. Just this week we hit the six month mark. I feel like we have done a lot but still have a ton to do in the next coming months. There are so many little details involved, thankfully I have a great support group of family and friends who are helping me keep it all together.

So far we have bought, ordered and received the following:

Toasting champagne flutes
Cocktail napkins
Cake napkins
rose petals
favor bags
flower girl dress material and patterns
out of towner goodies
INVITATIONS!! LOVE them, they turned out so pretty!
my wedding dress and head piece, still waiting on the shoes and the veil

I'm sure there is more, I just cant think at the moment. I am excited for the next coming months and to see everything to come together.

Event Venues

This is the First Presbyterian Church of Georgetown. This is where Rich and I will be saying our vows and starting our life together as Husband and Wife. The sanctuary is 150 years old, very small and intimate but very beautiful!

Here is the beautiful Casa Blanca. This is where my fairy tale reception will take place. Just pray that April 17, 2010 is a beautiful rain, humid free day...OK so maybe humid FREE is a lot to ask. Low humidity will work for me!

Tuxes and Vests

Just like the girls, There will be different colors of vests according to the roll the men play in the wedding...

This vest and tie will be worn by the Ring bearers and Groomsmen (sorry guys, at least its not hot pink!!!)

This vest and tie (I love this color) will be worn by my ushers and will look great on each of them!

This beautiful color will be worn by my Dad, my Brother and Rich's Dad.

I cant wait to see all of this come together. It has been a lot of work to pick colors and tuxes (twice) and ensure that everything matches and that there isn't anything that looks odd. I am so glad that I have friends who will put up with my flip floppy self and being patient while I chose things and then go back to change them...I promise, these are the vests and I will not change my mind again (I hope!) :)